Boyfriends, friend or foe?

I think they fall under both 'Love' and 'Hate' category. We do silly things for our boyfriend when we love them and ironically, we do silly things to/for them too when we hate them. So, why do women make their life so miserable by committing into relationships & getting themselves a boyfriend? The answer is actually very simple - Women need the sense of security and the shower of love from men. However, men tends to not understand these two simple basic needs of women.

Boyfriend often have no idea that putting in some little effort for lover can very much help to salvage shaky relationship. Most of the time, boyfriend doesn't seems to get it right on what their girlfriend wants. Most boyfriends encounter this problem - he often feels that he have not done anything wrong but yet, his girlfriend is obviously very unhappy with him. Now guys, let me solve this mystery for you. It is because you often do the right thing at the wrong time and do the wrong thing at the right time. Still scratching your head? Ok, let me quote an example. You commented when you are not suppose to (like, hey you shouldn't eat that, it's fattening), and did not comment when you are suppose to (when your girlfriend is seeking your advise). You get a clearer picture now?

I know, I know. I have to admit women are the 'most difficult to understand' creatures on earth. But has it ever crosses the men's mind that it is partly because they are insensitive? Their insensitivity makes women hate to love them but also, love to hate them.

If both sexes are willing to play their part well, this love-hate relationship could be turned into a love-love relationship. Men juz need to provide women the two basic needs, sense of security (protect your girlfriend, mentally and physically. Let them know no matter what, you wouldn't leave them) and shower of love (understand her and listen to her). Women, you might want to make life easier for your boyfriend. Men's brain is not created to play guessing game, they are very bad at it. So, let your boyfriend know what is on your mind.

However, there are men whose brain is made of wood (I'm "honoured" to know one). Wood will never understand the things you say (hello, am I speaking alien language here?) and even if he does, he wouldn't take any action (I guess it's because wood got no limbs).

Somehow, things are easier said than to be done. Maintaining a relationship is never easy and it takes much effort and compromising.

Boyfriend - someone whom we love so much that we can't live without but wish to live without at times.